What is it?
A pre-emptive offer is an offer (a written proposal to buy) made before the date the seller announced for reviewing offers. The buyer is trying to get the home before competing with other buyers, which is why it is called a "pre-emptive" offer or, more commonly, a "bully" offer.
RECO (the regulator of real estate agents in Ontario) defines it as an offer where the buyer does not follow the process the seller set out to delay offers, or other process conditions. Most come from homes with a set offer date, but an offer that breaks any other condition counts too.
Why do they happen?
In Toronto and the GTA, popular homes are often listed with a "holding offers" strategy: showings for several days, then all offers reviewed on one date. A buyer who really wants the home may offer early, to avoid a crowded offer night.
A bully offer usually comes with a very short irrevocable time (the deadline for the other side to answer), such as "until 11 p.m. tonight". The goal is to stop the seller from waiting for other offers. RECO Bulletin 4.3 notes that these offers often include a particularly short irrevocable period.
The price is usually high enough to make the seller give up waiting, but there is no rule that it must be.
What must the seller’s agent do?
The law and RECO Bulletins 4.2 and 4.3 require the listing agent to do the following.
- Pass every written offer to the client as soon as possible. The only exception is when the client (the seller) has given clear, detailed written direction to do otherwise.
- To hold offers until a date, that written direction must also say exactly how pre-emptive offers are to be handled. A one-line instruction "do not show me offers until <date>" is not enough.
- A listing note like "seller reserves the right to view pre-emptive offers without notice" does not satisfy the agent’s duties. RECO says it does not ensure a fair process and could be misleading.
- If the seller decides to review a bully offer, the agent must notify everyone who has shown interest in the home, in writing (text and email are acceptable). The notice must give the new offer date and time, and say that a pre-emptive offer was received.
- "Interested parties" is broad: anyone who booked a showing, viewed the home (including at an open house), said they would be submitting an offer, or already submitted one.
- The listing notes (on the MLS and other platforms) must be updated right away to match the new direction.
- If the bully offer comes from the listing agent’s own buyer client, the agent must tell the other interested parties as soon as possible, and the multiple representation must be disclosed to all prospective buyers.
RECO’s four scenarios
These examples are from RECO Bulletin 4.3. Everything turns on what the seller wrote in the direction.
| Seller’s written direction | When a bully offer arrives, the agent must |
|---|---|
| I do not want to know about any pre-emptive offer, under any circumstances | Not notify the seller. |
| Only show me pre-emptive offers above $600,000 — an offer of $595,000 arrives | Not notify the seller. |
| Only show me pre-emptive offers above $600,000 — an offer of $605,000 arrives | Tell the seller. If the seller wants to review it, notify every interested party in writing of the new offer date and time. |
| Offer date is set, but tell me about any pre-emptive offer | Tell the seller. If the seller reviews it, notify everyone as above. |
The dollar amounts are RECO’s example figures. The real threshold is whatever the seller decides.
If you are the buyer
- Ask first: have your agent find out whether the seller will consider pre-emptive offers. If the written direction says no, the agent cannot even pass your offer on.
- Register your interest: once you have viewed the home or told the listing brokerage you plan to offer, you are an "interested party" and must be notified if the seller decides to review a bully offer. That notice gives you a chance to submit your own.
- If you make a bully offer: it often needs a price and terms strong enough to make the seller stop waiting. Going over your budget or dropping the inspection and financing conditions is a serious risk. RECO warns that pre-qualifying for a mortgage does not make it safe to drop the financing condition.
- You set the irrevocable time: a short one pressures the seller, but if it is too short the seller may not even have time to notify other interested buyers and may just let it expire. Decide with your agent.
- A rejected bully offer is not the end. You can offer again on the offer date.
If you are the seller
- Decide how to handle pre-emptive offers before you set an offer date. Your agent must explain how, when and why they might arrive, and the benefits and risks of each option.
- The usual options are: do not tell me at all until the offer date; tell me one arrived but not the details; or show me only offers above a certain price or without certain conditions. Whatever you choose must be written clearly in the direction.
- You can change your mind with a new written direction. But then your agent must update the listing and notify every interested party, so it is cleaner to decide well at the start.
- Accepting a bully offer ends the competition on the offer date. You give up the chance of a higher offer, so judge it with your agent against recent sale prices.
If the process was unfair
If a listing agent moves the offer date without written direction, or accepts their own client’s bully offer without telling other interested buyers, you can complain to RECO. RECO checks the written directions, copies of all offers and the listing notes.
In one published case, an agent moved up the review date for their own buyer client without the sellers’ written direction and did not notify other buyers. RECO’s discipline committee ordered a $14,000 fine and an education course (the case was decided under the old REBBA rules).
Example
A detached house in Vaughan is listed on Monday with the note "offers reviewed next Monday at 6 p.m." The seller’s written direction says: "tell me if any pre-emptive offer comes in." On Wednesday a buyer submits an offer above asking, good until 10 p.m. Thursday.
The agent tells the seller right away, and the seller decides to review it. The agent updates the listing note and texts and emails every agent who booked a showing or viewed the home: "a pre-emptive offer has been received; offers will be reviewed Thursday at 8 p.m." Two more offers come in by Thursday evening, and the seller chooses one of the three.
What the law and official sources say
Quotes are copied word for word. The "In plain words" lines are our explanation, not an official translation.
A registrant shall convey any written offer received by the registrant to the registrant’s client as soon as possible after receiving the offer. … (4) Subsections (1) to (3) are subject to any written directions given by a client.In plain wordsAn agent must pass every written offer to the client as soon as possible. The only exception is a client’s written direction, which is what allows a seller to hold offers until a date.
Source: ontario.ca/laws/regulation/050567 · checked Oct 30, 2026
A pre-emptive offer is one where a buyer does not comply with the process outlined by the seller to delay the presentation of offers or other process conditions. Pre-emptive offers will often stem from a delayed offer strategy, but there may be other offer conditions that can result in a pre-emptive offer.In plain wordsA pre-emptive offer is one that does not follow the seller’s delayed-offer process or other conditions. It usually happens when the seller has set an offer date.
Source: reco.on.ca/agents-and-brokerages/reco-bulletins/reco-bulletin-4-3-managing-a-pre-emptive-offer/ · checked Oct 30, 2026
A seller’s agent is expected to outline specifically, how, when and why a pre-emptive offer might arrive, and that they often include a particularly short irrevocable period in an effort to avoid, or pre-empt, the seller’s offer process and having to compete with other buyers.In plain wordsThe seller’s agent must explain in advance how and why a bully offer might arrive, and that it often carries a very short deadline to avoid competing with other buyers.
Source: reco.on.ca/agents-and-brokerages/reco-bulletins/reco-bulletin-4-3-managing-a-pre-emptive-offer/ · checked Oct 30, 2026
Caution: Having the seller sign a brief general direction that they do not wish to view any offers until a specified date and inserting a statement in the listing notes like “seller reserves the right to view pre-emptive offers without notice” does not satisfy the agent’s obligations. The seller’s agent must notify all interested parties.In plain wordsA short general direction plus a listing note saying the seller may view bully offers without notice does not meet the agent’s duties. The agent must notify every interested party.
Source: reco.on.ca/agents-and-brokerages/reco-bulletins/reco-bulletin-4-3-managing-a-pre-emptive-offer/ · checked Oct 30, 2026
The notification must include the new offer presentation date and time if changed, and that a pre-emptive offer was received, if the seller has decided to review and consider the offer.In plain wordsIf the seller decides to review a bully offer, the notice to interested parties must give the new offer date and time and say that a pre-emptive offer was received.
Source: reco.on.ca/agents-and-brokerages/reco-bulletins/reco-bulletin-4-3-managing-a-pre-emptive-offer/ · checked Oct 30, 2026
A seller’s agent who has a buyer client making a pre-emptive offer must apprise other interested parties of this fact as soon as possible. The multiple representation must also be disclosed to all prospective buyers.In plain wordsIf the listing agent’s own buyer client makes a bully offer, the agent must tell the other interested parties as soon as possible and disclose the multiple representation to all prospective buyers.
Source: reco.on.ca/agents-and-brokerages/reco-bulletins/reco-bulletin-4-3-managing-a-pre-emptive-offer/ · checked Oct 30, 2026
Common questions
Are bully offers illegal?
No. A buyer is free to make an offer at any time. The rules are about how the seller’s agent handles it: follow the seller’s written direction, and if the seller decides to review it, notify every interested party.
The seller said "no pre-emptive offers". What happens to mine?
With that written direction, the agent does not pass your offer to the seller. It simply expires when its irrevocable time passes. You can offer again on the offer date.
I was notified that a bully offer will be reviewed, but the deadline is very short.
The review time follows the seller’s written direction; RECO’s bulletins only require that the new date and time be sent in writing. If you are not ready, your agent can ask for more time, but the seller does not have to agree. Be careful not to drop conditions or exceed your budget in the rush.
The listing just says "seller may consider pre-emptive offers". Can it sell without any notice to me?
RECO says that wording alone is not enough. If the seller decides to review a bully offer, the agent must notify in writing everyone who has shown interest. If it sold without notice, you can complain to RECO.
As a seller, should I accept bully offers?
There is no single answer. You may lock in a good price early, but you give up the chance that competition on the offer date brings a higher one. Your agent must explain both sides; weigh them against recent sales and write your choice clearly in the direction.
Guides that use this term
Sources checked
- RECO Bulletin 4.3 Managing a pre-emptive offer · checked Oct 30, 2026
- RECO Bulletin 4.2 Managing a delayed offer presentation process · checked Oct 30, 2026
- O. Reg. 567/05: General (TRESA regulation) s. 22.10 (e-Laws) · checked Oct 30, 2026
- RECO, Legal corner: $14,000 fine for mismanaging delayed offer process · checked Oct 30, 2026
- RECO, Competing offers (information for buyers) · checked Oct 30, 2026